Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Mentawai





Where do I begin? I have just returned to Surabaya after an 11 day absence. In that time, I drank rain water, drew water from a well to bathe, ate food cooked over a wood fire, said prayers by kerosene lamp, spent long hours in dug-out canoes, witnessed a traditional healing ceremony, and met lots of wonderful people. I suppose I should attempt a chronological account…

Tuesday night I scrambled to finish the SIS newsletter, which goes to print at 4pm every Wednesday. I also wrote my articles for the following week and set a template, and packed my backpack with lots of clothes, mosquito repellent, a collapsible mosquito net, instant oatmeal, granola bars, fried tempe, canned fish, dried fruit, and mosquito repelling incense coils. Wednesday morning I left for the airport, got my boarding pass, and got on the plane. I noticed that the dates on my ticket didn’t match the dates on the boarding pass, but decided it must be a computer error, since I certainly wouldn’t have been allowed to board the plane a day early. I had a layover in the Jakarta airport, during which time I smsed (text messaged) the woman I would be meeting in Padang, Soesi. It turned out she was in the same waiting room, and was confused because she thought I was arriving the next day. That meant that instead of following the plan that she would pick me up from the airport and we would go to the boat that night, I actually would have an entire day free in Padang. That was strange, since we’d worked the schedule out beforehand. I smsed Greg, asking what the date was and he confirmed that it was April 12th, which was the day my ticket was issued for. Finally, I asked Soesi. She said it was the 11th, which in fact, it was. How weird is that? That day and the next consisted of sitting around in Padang totally bored. Thankfully, I had books to read.

The night of the twelfth, we decided to take a speed boat to the ferry at about 7:30pm rather than board the boat at 4 and sit on it anchored while the tide went out. It was a good decision because when we did board the boat we still had half an hour before it left, during which time Soesi definitely started to look a little pale and I worried about getting seasick myself. Once the boat started moving I was fine, though. Our friend and guide, a Baha’I man from a village in Mentawai, Pak Salim, was able to secure a bunk for us even though they were all full (one of the two ferries was out of service so there were more passengers than usual). We slept the whole way, and woke up in Pokai, a village slightly north on the eastern side of the main Mentawai island, Siberut. Pak Salim immediately shuttled us one at a time on his motorbike (a rare commodity in Mentawai) to his house. I was first, and met his very cheerful children, elementary school-aged Sari, and one-year-old Anu, and his wife Zaynab. Despite being named after the historical Baha’I heroine, she was Muslim. Zaynab’s mother also lived in the house. All visible parts of her body except her face were tattooed with dark blue lines. Zaynab didn’t mind that I didn’t understand most of what she said, and served me tea and warm kolak, bananas and sweet potatoes stewed in sweetened coconut milk. I also drank my first glass of rainwater. Later in the afternoon I watched her collect rainwater dripping from the roof of the house. The rain prevented Soesi and I from visiting many people, but we did go to a nice blue-painted house of an older couple who harvest coklat, the seeds from the fruit of the cocoa tree which they sell to merchants who later sell to companies who turn the stuff into chocolate as we know it. Later, we were again shuttled by Pak Salim to the nearby town of Polopo where we sat in the local shop drinking more sweet tea. We needed to get to M----- but the boatmen insisted on charging us the tourist price to get up the river - $40 US instead of about $10, or 100,000 Rp. So we hired another ojek, a man with a motorcycle, and got him and Pak Salim to drive us half of the 8 Km. Then the road turned into a muddy trail so we walked the rest of the way. We reached our destination at sunset. Soesi was first to bathe, and when she was through, told me that she had kindly drawn water for my bath. I put on my sandals and walked out to the ‘bathroom’ which had a short ply-wood wall around it and a nice banana tree with over-hanging leaves as a ceiling. In the middle was a square well, swarming with mosquitos and next to that was the large rubber bucket with a scooper for bathing. The only difficult thing was finding a place to hang my dry clothes. We spent the evening walking through the village by flashlight and visiting houses lit by kerosene lantern. We returned to our house (the stars were amazing!) to find that it was one of the few houses with power. We watched awful soap operas in which people murdered and stole things, then lay awake listening to the generator under our mosquito net until we fell asleep. The nights were surprisingly cold!

The following day was incredibly hot, and we spent it sitting and talking. We sat on many wooden floors, on porches, on benches, always drinking hot sweet tea. We met several Baha’is, the village head, and many people curious about who we were and why we were there. There used to be many, many Baha’is in Mentawai (there still are a lot) but some time ago, when the government outlawed Baha’I administration along with the Rotary Club, Chinese language schools, and every other organized activity, the police in Mentawai decided to use the law to their advantage. They decided it was illegal for anyone to be a Baha’I (which was never true, but was a common misconception at the time), and did things like close the numerous Baha’I schools on the island, arrest Baha’is, interrogate them, forcing many to choose one of the five recognized religions (Islam, Christianity, Catholocism, Hinduism, or Buddhism), and causing many others to go into hiding. As a result of this, there are many people who used to be Baha’is, or who consider themselves to be two religions. For example, they say Baha’I prayers at home, but go to the mosque or church every week. Since Baha’is believe all religions come from the same God and are all equal and valid, it seems pretty ok, except that the Baha’I Faith is a separate religion requiring utmost truthfulness on the part of the believer, so it’s not quite in keeping with the teachings to pretend to be another religion.

In the afternoon Soesi called together as many Baha’is as could come to read and deepen on the most recent letter from the Universal House of Justice which makes special mention of strengthening the Local Spiritual Assemblies, the elected local branches of administration. The administration has been legal for seven years in Indonesia now, so it’s still a fairly new concept. The idea that no person is superior to any other person in the Baha’i Faith (which has no clergy) is very difficult in places ruled by village chiefs and family heads, but each of the nine elected members of an Assembly have no special station whatsoever – it is only when they are consulting together that they have any ability to plan for the future of the community or offer guidance. We discovered that the biggest problem facing the community was that of disunity. Some Baha’is don’t like other Baha’is, some Baha’is look down on people who were forced to change their religion, or look down on people of other religions – and the Baha’I Faith is a religion that says “It is incumbent upon all the peoples of the world to reconcile their differences, and, with perfect unity and peace, abide beneath the shadow of the Tree of His care and loving-kindness.” I was surprised to hear about disunity in the community, because the village is so small and it seems like everyone is friends and everyone was so happy and loving. Soesi and I formed an idea to help the community and were invited to an event at the school the following day. But before we could rest, we attended a healing ceremony done by five Secray, three men and two women. We stayed until midnight, but after we left apparently many people went into trances. The Secray wore mostly red and blue – red skirts or loin cloths, with headdresses made of leaves and feathers and beaded jewelry, and they pounded leaves, poured water, and chanted while ringing bells for an incredible amount of time. Later they danced with a plate of food while others played drums. It’s a good thing we didn’t stay up all night at it, because we would have been exhausted the next morning.

We had three different breakfasts that morning, at different houses, then went to the preschool (TK) which is run by a Baha’i foundation in Medan. Every child in the village is required to attend, and the parents love what their children are learning. The get a head start coming into Kindergarten, since they already can count and know the alphabet, and they are better behaved because they learn about sharing, helping, treating others nicely, and about accepting people from all backgrounds and beliefs. The teachers come from several different religious backgrounds, and are all well-trained and brought especially to teach in the school from other places. The parents were holding a meeting with the TK teachers and Elementary heads of schools to find out if they could improve the quality of education for the Elementary students. Now that the preschool is so good, they feel the Elementary school is lacking. The kids have to be sent away for Middle School. There was a very long discussion about whether paying 1,000Rp (10 cents) a month for each child was too high a fee. Then it was our turn. Several teachers had told us that they have trouble teaching the children to be respectful, have good manners, and be friendly, because the parents don’t support what they learn at home. The parents all say they like what the kids learn, but feel that it’s not their job to require anything of the children because they themselves are not educated at all. Our goal was to help the parents attending the meeting (over 45 mothers and fathers) understand their role in their childrens’ education even though they may be illiterate. We started by discussing a quote “Regard man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education can, alone, cause it to reveal its treasures, and enable mankind to benefit therefrom.” We talked about ‘gems’ and passed out a virtue written on a slip of paper to every person (love, generosity, creativity, etc.) Then they formed groups of 5 according to their paper to make a ‘visual representation’ of a quote that talks about how a child without knowledge (intellectual, moral, and spiritual) is like a tree without fruits. Within 2 minutes, every group was ready and eager to perform, and the various plays, pantomimes and so forth were hilarious. I was amazed! The first time we asked adults in Java to create a drama, they were incredulous and were able to come up with presentations only a full 15 minutes of hesitation and questions. The people in Mentawai lack all of the ‘saving face’ culture present in Java, and don’t hesitate to disagree or tell you ‘no’ when the answer is no. The woman spoke as much as the men, and were listened to. All over the island I saw men taking care of toddlers and women working in fields. In any case, the parents loved the little ‘class’ on parenting and wanted more! The few Baha’is in the group were thrilled that people outside their religion liked the Baha’I concepts presented so much, and they actually met new people (how is that possible in such a small village?) because of the random assignment of groups. It turns out that the village chief (a self-proclaimed former Baha’i) had asked that all the mosques and churches in the village urge their followers to attend this very important meeting on education because the children are the future of the village.

We left from the school, picked up our bags, walked to the river, and climbed into a very unsteady dug-out canoe with a motor on the back called a pompom. We sped down the wide, curvy river as the sun turned the clouds gold, reflecting off the smooth water surface. Our navigator was a teenage guy who took the curves like an American High Schooler would cruise the curves in his new car. We passed a few dug-out canoes without motors, the people paddling along.

We stayed in a house/shop at the transfer place for small boats, and the next day took an only slightly larger pompom out the mouth of the river into the ocean. We were drenched within minutes, and glad we’d wrapped our gear in plastic garbage bags. I talked to a young man sitting behind me the whole way. It turned out he was going to become the new Arabic teacher (and acting Imam) in the one tiny mosque in the town we were visiting. He was from an Islamic school in Jakarta and was volunteering for one year, starting the day of our arrival. That night we heard his first call to prayer over the town. There were only two Baha’I women in that town. We stayed with one of them, a teacher at a TK the same as at the last place. Unfortunately, the room in her boarding house reeked of the drying green cloves that filled the house. Cloves (cengkeh) are the main source of income for most of the people there. When it was sunny, every path in town was covered with cloves and clove stems in various stages of dryness. It was cool, but that smell made me totally nauseas. We hiked to the top of the mountain and could see the sea and the bay where we’d come in. The path we walked on continued up the hill to the next village, a two day walk away, and down the hill to a patch of forest overlooking the bay. Our guide told us that was the only place near the village you could get cell phone service. We didn’t go there. Instead we sat on the porch of a house for several hours, watching groups of teenagers or older women going to pick rambutan in the forest, and men trekking into the village from the next town barefoot and smiling. After some time, a young couple with a toddler and a baby came to the porch – the house was evidently theirs but they didn’t mind us. We left anyways, but I took special notice of the man cuddling the sleeping toddler while the mother put down her work basket – a type of long basket worn like a backpack. We left the next morning the same way we came. This time the tide was high so we didn’t have to wade through the sticky mud (Soesi’s flipflop broke on the way in). It was very sunny and the sea was calm. A nice old lady held her umbrella up as a sunshade over both of us, and we saw so many dolphins that I thought they’d never end – they were going the opposite direction as us farther out to sea and they kept surfacing in a line for about 5 whole minutes.

Back at the shop, we picked up the extra clothes and food we’d left and went on to Labuanbajao, the northernmost fishing village, by private pompom in the ocean. We stayed with a wonderful young couple with a toddler and a one-month-old baby. It turns out that over 30% of the people in the village are Baha’is. I walked out to the beautiful beach the afternoon of our first and only full day in Labuanbajao. It’s a long crescent of powdery sand reaching into the turquoise ocean, free of rocks or coral, with palm trees and jambu air trees next to the beach. Definitely at least one of the most beautiful beaches I’ve seen in Indonesia. So I walked along the beach, and saw a group of about 8 fishermen untangling net in a painted boat. One turned out to be my host who called me over and introduced me to his extended family – all of whom replied with “Allah’u’abha,” the Baha’I greating that means “God is most glorious.” The father of the man we stayed with is a Baha’I secray. The Muslims and Christians in the area forbid their members from practicing the old traditions and he was afraid the same was true for Baha’is. Fortunately, the Baha’I Faith encourages people to keep their own cultures alive as a necessary component of the diversity of the human race. His wife invited us to a huge breakfast before we left, including chicken, vegetables in coconut milk and spices, rice, and sago steamed into a chewy, purple bread. The sago was not passed to me, on the assumption (rather, well-known fact) that sago shows primitiveness and anyone modern prefers rice. The people in Mentawai pay more for rice than we do in America even though they have very little money in an effort to be modern. Throughout Indonesia, and particularly in the nearby city of Padang, the Mentawaians are looked down on and viewed as primitive, so they respond by buying generators if they can afford them and eating rice. After finally getting hold of the sago, I said it was delicious, but they just laughed, thinking I was being polite but not honest. Really, though, I’d take sago over flavorless white rice any day. The sago tastes like eating a good whole-grain bread, something that doesn’t exist in Indonesia, and I’m sure it’s much healthier than rice. Besides which, sago grows in Mentawai and rice doesn’t! We returned to Pokai and decided to go back to Malampolo. We planned to stay a whole day, but it turned out that the ferry back to Padang had changed schedules so we only went for one night and had to return the next morning. That night we met many Baha’is that we hadn’t met on the first visit. There must be many more that we never met.

On the way back we stopped at the shop and Soesi chaired a consultation on the much-needed boarding house – many of the Baha’I children have to move to another town just to go to jr. high school, and because of lack of accommodation, the best option is to send them to the Muslim or Catholic schools which provide housing but make it known that it’s expected that all the Muslims at a Muslim school are in fact Muslim. Providing a Baha’I dorm in the village that has a middle school would allow Baha’I children to attend without pressure of conversion. The ferry was supposed to leave very soon and we were 30 minutes from the port. I left first and waited with Zaynab, worrying about missing the ferry and eating kolak with pumpkin. But Soesi arrived and we boarded the boat without a problem. We saw dolphins again on our way to Maurasiberut, the biggest ‘town’ on the Island. The presence of occasional glass windows, satelite dishes, and electricity in most houses clued us in to just how much more modern this ‘capital’ town was compared wo where we’d come from. We spent a few hours docked there, so Soesi borrowed a motorbike and navigated the holey roads and bridges to meet with a few Baha’is including a couple that knew Dr. Mohajir. Then it was back to Padang where we were immediately shuttled into an air conditioned car with leather seats and we were back in ‘civilization.’

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Leaving Surabaya







There was such a flurry of activity when we left Surabaya and I'm just now getting it into my blog - but I'm dating it back so that it will be in chronological order, before the Mentawai blogs.

First, we arranged for the movers to come and pack everything in our house. This is a service that the school paid for, and boy was it nice. All we did was sit and watch, and they wrapped and boxed everything. In fact, they did such a thorough job that they packed a few things that weren't ours!

After that, we took a trip that we'd been meaning to take for a very long time - to Mt. Bromo, the famous volcanic crater just outside of Surabaya. We got a group together and drove up in the middle of the night to catch sunrise at the crater. It was lots of fun, though exhausting after being up all night and then hiking up the stairs to the crater (and then riding horses around).

Then my classes finished up. My Korean Moms English class finished the book they were reading about an adopted Korean girl in America and we had some delicious food to celebrate. Then my flute students had a little concert in my then-empty living room. Our batik class met a final time in the garage to finish our T-shirts and decide on background colors. Then we said our goodbyes. To do this, we decided we had better visit all the people that we'd become friends with. We had to visit everyone so that nobody would feel left out. For days we drove around the city making sure to visit every family. We had to stay long enough to say goodbye, and often we had to say goodbye to all the neighbors, too! Several of our friends were nice enough to drive around with us to help with directions and translating. It was so sad to say goodbye, and everyone asked when we would come back... It's hard to explain that there's a chance we might never be back, though I certainly hope that some day we can.

We attended our last Nineteen-Day Feast (the Baha'i community gets together on the first of every Baha'i month) and we had to say our final goodbyes to our wonderful community. We took tons of pictures, and everyone said they would miss us. It was a good opportunity to reflect on our first Feast with the community, in which we were regarded kindly, but as strangers, and where the Feast was just plain boring - this final Feast was a loving atmosphere and a friend of ours led singing at the end.

As we finished packing we distributed our remaining household items among friends, and learned about a very interesting Indonesian tradition: when someone moves away, everyone gives them gifts - kenang-kenangan, gifts of remembrance. So we had to re-pack all over again to make sure we could bring all our gifts home! Several of our American friends had going-away dinners and parties, and we had our own little get-together as we zipped our bags a final time and made sure everything was out of our enormous house.

We first left for Malaysia to drop our things at a friend's house, then took a real vacation in Lombok before heading to Mentawai. Lombok was an excellent transition - we did nothing but lay, walk, ride, and swim at the beach for 4 days, processing our time in Surabaya and mentally preparing for our month of travels that would take us all the way to Haifa.

Monday, April 9, 2007

Health Food in Surabaya

Sunday morning Greg and I decided to try the brand new organic foods shop and restaurant that opened two weeks ago, the first of its kind in Surabaya. We were excited by the good ol’ American brands we saw – SantaCruz pop (soda if you’re from there, of course), Tom’s of Maine toothpaste, you get the idea. The menu listed buckwheat waffles, so we took a long, hot walk there in the late morning. It was 11 when we arrived, so we asked if they were still serving breakfast. The waiter assured us that they were and gave us our menus. We promptly ordered our waffles. But the waiter returned and told us they didn’t have the waffles. So I ordered French Toast and Greg ordered a spinach crepe. But they couldn’t make that. So he ordered a veggie burger. But they didn’t have that. He finally ordered a grilled vegetable sandwich. Some time later, my “French Toast” came out. The menu described it as “Napolean French Toast layered with your choice of strawberries, raw almonds, or honey.” They’d already told me they didn’t have almonds or strawberries but I’d agreed to some sort of berry jam. Mulberry I think. This is what was on the plate: three pieces of very dry, white, crustless bread (non-organic, I’m sure) layered with red jam, and a small salad with thousand island dressing. Inedible. When I complained that it wasn’t French Toast, our waiter told us that it was exactly like the menu described, and that they’d gotten all their recipes from Jakarta. Greg did in fact have a sandwich with some roast peppers, mushrooms and yellow mustard and mayonnaise on it. It was edible. We decided that we would not be returning and that although we were excited about it being an ‘American organic’ store, it was still an Indonesian restaurant.

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Spring Break in Toraja and Ambon





We just got back from 9 days of traveling around Indonesia with Greg’s friend Billy from High School. He’s leaving Surabaya today, and Greg is in the final stretch of the school year – the last day is May 30th and the big swim meet is coming up in two weeks. Time is flying!

As soon as school ended for Spring Break, Greg and I flew to Makassar in South Sulawesi. We met Billy fresh from China in the Makassar airport, and stayed with an older Baha’i lady who’s daughter (and granddaughter) lives in Surabaya. Several members of the very large Baha’I community of Makassar came to visit us. I was able to share the recent happenings in Surabaya (such as the Ruhi party), but didn’t learn much about activities in Makassar. Greg, Billy, and I explored the city a bit and discovered that there’s live music every weekend at the shore, and the city is walkable and nice. Surabaya is undoubtedly our least favorite Indonesian city to date!

From Makassar we took an 8-hour bus trip to the famous Tanah Toraja, stopping along the way to buy rambutans, dukuh, and salak, fruits that are as ordinary to us now as apples and oranges. We met a young Irish woman traveling alone, and ended up staying at the same hotel (a $6 a night place) and touring with her. We hired a tour guide and car to take us to the sights, and it was totally worth it. Tanah Toraja is a really beautiful area in the mountains that reminds me of a tropical Colorado – jagged cliffs, blue skies, rice fields…? The houses all have an inverted-boat-shaped roof which peaks on either end. They’re carved and painted with beautiful designs in the four direction colors (the same everywhere!) which symbolize things thing betel leaf for hospitality, roosters for justice (cock fighting used be the decision-making tool), and a sun motif to symbolize the Great Creator. They’re also decorated with horns from sacrificed buffalo. The Torajan people have a very interesting view of the afterlife – when a person dies, the family keeps the body around and calls the person “sick” for months or years, during which time they prepare for the funeral. Depending on the status of the person, the funeral could mean the sacrifice of hundreds or thousands of water buffalo and pigs, a huge gathering, and a procession that places the body in a cliff with a wooden effigy put outside. That’s pretty simplified, but our guide was very informative. Basically, everything seemed to be about death and burial. We visited a tree that had babies buried into the trunk, too. We also took a terrific hike through rice fields and up a hillside, and got to sample some Torajan food – red rice and chicken cooked inside bamboo with coconut and spices. We returned to Makassar on the night bus (not so enjoyable) and flew to Ambon.

Ambon is, I believe, the capital city of the Molucca islands – the real ‘spice islands’ that all those famous people were after. It has a history of being conquered, and has the Banda islands (the clove islands) to the south-east, and the Molucca’s (the nutmeg islands) to the north-west. As in, there used to be cloves and nutmeg only on those islands. It’s far enough east that the people seem really different from people in Java – they’re tall, dark, have Jewish-looking noses, bushy eyebrows, kinky hair, and are very soft-spoken. As opposed to Javanese who are small, petite, Asian-looking, and generally noisy – a little like Italian is spoken. The Ambonese also apparently think it’s rude to stare at strangers, which was a great change from Surabaya, where it’s totally acceptable for a person of any age to openly gawk and shout insults. That said, Ambon is still recovering from a recent religious conflict. There didn’t seem to be an excess of poverty, but the fishing is done using some pretty unethical methods and all waste is dumped into the bay, which is filthy. I read an account that said that when Wallace was classifying species in Ambon bay it was incredible and hundreds of things he saw were apparently indigenous and are now just gone. Billy was able to dive in the bay, and said there were still some really incredible things in the water, but that it was so dirty he didn’t want to get in – and saw a dead whale. Greg and I dove the first day, and though we did see some cool stuff, it was nothing compared to Bunaken in diversity and color. Plus, our dive guide was pretty useless. Later, Greg and I drove to the other side of the island to meet a Baha’i family. We had a great time with them, walking to a nearby hot spring and eating lots of mangosteens. At lunch time, a Baha’i man came with his son from the neighboring island of Seram, too. There was a lot that we couldn’t understand, but it was a great visit.

Naw-Ruz


Like last year, we decided to invite everyone we knew for a Naw-Ruz party. Naw-Ruz means ‘New Year’ and marks the end of the Baha’i month (19 days) of Fasting and the first day of spring (the vernal equinox). Baha’i days start at sunset, so the party was the night of the 20th and began with breaking the last day of Fasting for our Bahá’í guests. Last year we had a pot luck, but it meant that at sunset we only had rice, fruit, and cake – entrees came later with guests who weren’t Fasting! So this year we decided that we would provide the food. At first our maid wanted to cook – she’s a fabulous cook – but we would have had to buy big pots and woks and cook all day together because we discovered we’d invited over 100 people. So we ordered up 100 boxes of traditional yellow rice, tempe sambal goring (really good sweet-fried tempe with peanuts and chiles), perkedel (mashed potato cakes), roast chicken, and green beans. We also ordered hundreds of traditional cakes, mostly green-colored pandan-flavored. And I bought 9 kilos of rambutans, plus piles of dukuh, green apples, and green oranges. Only about 65 people came, so we had plenty of food, and the party was great. We played ‘human bingo’ again this year, and this time people really got into it. Unfortunately, only about 4 teachers from the school came and none of the students came, so the crowd was not quite as diverse as the year before. It was great, though. And incredible to be able to buy that much food for not nearly as much money as you’d think! We printed pictures of spring to try to give our Indonesian friends a sense of what the first day of spring meant – we put them up on the wall, showing snow-covered fields, then mud, crocuses blooming under the snow, cherry blossoms, and finally fields of flowers and green. It’s hard to appreciate warmth, green, and flowers, when every day is hot and lush.

Ruhi Party



Bahá’ís and those interested in becoming familiar with Baha’i teachings all over the world are studying a series of books called Ruhi books. Independent investigation of the truth, i.e., reading and thinking for oneself, is a key teaching in the Baha’i Faith, but the Ruhi books allow an introduction to some basic themes because there is a huge amount of literature and it’s often hard for people to know where to start. The first book deals with topics like truthfulness and spiritual qualities, why people pray, and what happens to the soul after death. The method of studying the books is just as important as the content, and it is designed to be an instigator of unity and community building. Thus a group studying together has a facilitator but not a leader, and the people make a point of having fun together as well as working together to do community service. The material in the book is often introduced using music, drama, and games, and it’s generally an overall very enjoyable experience.

In Indonesia, however, people are not used to meeting regularly for anything, so most Ruhi books are studied with just one tutor and one participant, which makes it hard to create a feeling of community. Many people study Ruhi as they would for a class in school, simply reading through the books together and not taking time to do related activities. Obviously, that makes the books, well, not fun. Greg and I and two close friends decided we wanted to help the community to have fun, so we planned a Ruhi party.

About 15 people came – some who had already studied all the Ruhi books, some who had never heard of them - and we started with some ice-breakers and dinner. Then we divided everyone into groups of 3 or 4 and explained that each person would have to take turns tutoring, or explaining the activity to their group. Then we gave out directions for the tutor to use so that they could present activities from the first book including a drama, visual arts, a puzzle, rhythm, and a simple science experiment. Everyone seemed to have a lot of fun, though many were hesitant at first, and felt uncomfortable to be the one introducing the new idea. Hopefully some of the participants will use the same activities on their own, and start to have a little more fun!

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

The Fast started last Friday. Baha'is fast for one Baha'i month (19 days) of the year, from March 2 - March 20. Before that was Ayyam-i-Ha, the Days of Joy, and we celebrated with parties after we got back from Lombok. I went to my friend Vena's boarding house, and Greg went to a party at Pucang. The fast is from Sunrise to Sunset, which is always almost exactly 12 hours so close to the equator. We don't have to deal with the new daylight savings time, thank goodness, but we do have lots of heat and humidity! So we started by going to Malang where it's nice and cool (er) with my friend Pritta. We visited her aunt and uncle (our friends before we met Pritta) and had a very nice time walking around, going to a waterfall, and buying flowers to plant in front of our house in Surabaya. Then it was time to start the real week. On Monday, I accepted a job teaching English at a school in Sidoarjo. I was asked to talk about "American Culture" to motivate the students to progress in their English studies. Not knowing what to talk about, I asked the students to tell me what they already knew about Americans. For example: Americans are white; Americans are rich; Americans are beautiful. Then I talked about each point they'd brought up with an emphasis of the diversity in America. It's odd - I've never really even liked America, and spent my whole life looking at the mistakes that have been made. But talking about the diversity in America (granted, it's not always a pretty picture), really made me wish that every one of those Indonesian students could go there and see what it's like. The students were really shocked to know that there were poor people in America, and that there were lots of different skin colors in America. Every class had a big debate when we got to "Are all American's beautiful?" because it's a hard fact here that white skin is beautiful and black skin is not. I told them about all those Americans who pay for tans - it was hilarious. The kids spoke better English than I thought they would, thank goodness, but were surprisingly disrespectful and had side-conversations through the whole class. Apparently that is accepted and if I got 'stern' with them and asked if they wanted me to go on, the teacher would tell me to be patient. Whatever that's supposed to mean. So after shouting for 6 45 minute classes, it was time to go. But first we had to make a stop to see the mud, which I still hadn't managed to see. It was pretty incredible. Whole villages have been wiped out, and all you can see is this:




I know it’s been a long time. Not having internet at home was one thing, but when the closest hotspot (the Supermal) didn’t have internet for three weeks, it really threw me off. But now I’m back to tell you about my more recent adventures in Indonesia. I suppose that before I do that, I should just remind you all that Greg and I are fine and unaffected by the more recent disasters in the country. If you haven’t heard of those more recent disasters, don’t bother looking them up. I’m just saving you the stress!

After a stressful year thus far, Greg took a day off work and took me on a surprise vacation for Ayyam-i-Ha. I had the choice of it not being a surprise at some point, but I like surprises, and didn’t find out where we were going until we got to the airport. Actually, even knowing the name of our destination city didn’t help me at first (“Where’s Mataram?”) but I found out eventually. We went to South Lombok near the town of Kuta (not Kuta, Bali) to a Novotel resort. It didn’t seem like my thing at first, and we had to complain about our room, but by day 2 it was an incredible and relaxing vacation. We were there for three nights, and after our complaint, were able to stay in our own thatch-roofed hut very close to the beach and to the amazing raised swimming pool. We spent the whole time walking on the beach, reading, swimming, and eating. The beach was off of a tidal bay, so when the tide was out there wasn’t any water. But when the tide was in, you could swim very far from shore and the bottom was only 6 feet under. It was beautiful. I finally was able to swim a few strokes of butterfly. We ate breakfast on top of a hill, and got to try weaving (both of us) when a woman came to sell cloth on the beach. It was really fun, but very hard on the shoulders.