Friday, July 20, 2007

Pilgrimage








For nine days, July 9-17, Greg and I joined my parents and brother for Baha'i Pilgrimage. The Baha'i Holy Land is in Haifa, Israel, and since the Baha'is want to stay on good terms with the government, Baha'is from all over the world have to 'sign up' and wait for their turn the the city doesn't become over-run with Baha'is. My family had been waiting for about 7 years for the opportunity to go - pilgrimage is something that every Baha'i is supposed to do at least once in their lifetime if they can make it work. For many pilgrims, going to Haifa is the first time they've been out of their native country, the first time they've been on an airplane - perhaps the first time they've left their place of birth. Pilgrims going to the Holy Land is often explained with the analogy of the blood going to the heart to gain spiritual energy to bring back to their various places of origin. Toward the end of last year my parents were notified that our family would be able to go and were given a choice of dates and with the school year, July was what we chose. Greg, having become part of the family, was immediately added and didn't have to go on the waiting list - lucky him!

Coming right from a busy trip in Mentawai, riding in dugout canoes to places with no electricity, Greg and I didn't have much time to prepare - mentally or spiritually. In every Baha'i home we visited in Mentawai, there wasn't any furniture, and the only wall decoration would be a picture or two of the Holy Land. When we arrived, it was a very 'Mary Poppins' experience, and a bit shocking to our senses. We were inside the pictures! Except that everything was more beautiful than the pictures, and the pictures don't convey the water pouring from the fountains and plunking down the sides of the stairs leading up the terraces or the light cast from the stained-glass windows of the shrine of the Bab at night. Or the gently swaying lacey-leaved trees inside the shrine of Baha'u'llah. Or the intense heat and humidity in Haifa in July!

Baha'i pilgrimage consists of visiting the most Holy places for Baha'is. The most important place is the resting place of the founder of the Baha'i Faith, Baha'u'llah, which is in a house called Baji near Akka (now called Acre). The other most Holy site is the shrine of the Bab, the forerunner of the Baha'i Faith. Abdu'l-Baha, Baha'u'llah's son is also buried in the Bab's shrine located on Mount Carmel right in the center of the city of Haifa, and such a prominent landmark that the locals proudly boast its beauty and brides consider it good luck to have their pictures taken inside the front gates. The whole section of the mountain is terraced with beautiful gardens, and a few terraces above the shrine of the Bab are several buildings collectively called the ark. There's the Universal House of Justice, the center of the covenant and currently the only international governing body in the world that makes sure the Baha'is all over the world are on the same page. It's the highest level of administration in the Baha'i world, above the National Spiritual Assemblies, which are above Local Spiritual Assemblies, each with nine elected members, elected by secret ballot without campaigning, of course. There's also the Center for the Study of the Text full of libraries and researchers, the International Teaching Center, and the Archives building. What I didn't know until I had a tour of the buildings, was how beautiful they are. I always thought they were just cool buildings, but the architecture and design is incredible. The outside of the Universal House of Justice is Carrara marble carved in Greece, the Center for the Study of the Text has a round sunk garden in the entryway with a fountain, the meeting chamber for the International Teaching Center has a prism-like layered glass window to allow light in with the ring-stone symbol etched into the glass in the middle of a nine-pointed star skylight... I guess because the building are in such a steep mountain, great effort was put into making the rooms filled with sunlight - and they certainly are. We also saw the prison where Baha'u'llah and his family were kept, as well as the numerous houses that he and his family lived in while under house arrest.

We basically spent the whole time praying at the shrines and in the houses. All the pilgrims were really taken care of - there were excellent facilities everywhere we went, we had an amazing guide, and it really wasn't like a tour group even though there were about 30 of us and we went everywhere on a bus together. There were about 250 pilgrims total when we were there, and nearly every night we got to hear talks from Hand of the Cause Dr. Varqa, members of the Universal House of Justice, and members of the International Teaching Center. It was really amazing to be in the Holy Land. Greg said that he felt like, coming straight from Indonesia where so many Baha'is will never be able to go on pilgrimage, that he was bringing the prayers of all the people with him. Maybe it helped that almost all the clothes we wore were made by Indonesian Baha'i friends of ours. It was powerful. And by the end of our nine days, we were exhausted, and Greg and I were ready to stop living out of our suitcases!

Saturday, July 7, 2007

Greece







The cheapest flight between Malaysia and Haifa stopped in Athens, Greece, believe it or not. So we decided to spend three days exploring the Metropolis and meeting some Greek Baha'is. We had a great time and were amazed by the history of the place. Every inch of the city held archaeological treasures. Even the underground stations were like museums with shards of pottery and so forth that was excavated when they built the places.

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

Malaysia




Leaving Mentawai, it was great to stop for a few days in Malaysia to acclimate ourselves to 'civilization' before continuing our travels. The best part was that we got to spend time with our friends' new baby, Svara. Boy is she cute! Of course, the first thing we did was to go to the nearby club and take hot showers. And eat lots of non-coconut food. We also ended up having to do stupid things like mail four big boxes to ourselves because of the new weight limits on airplane baggage. But we had fun eating vegetarian food and playing games and generally relaxing and getting our stuff in order before we moved on.

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Mentawai Round II (part 3: the jungle)






Greg and I wanted to do one last thing before we left Mentawai. We wanted to go to the jungle. We'd seen and hiked through a lot of what appeared to be jungle, but it was actually all carefully cultivated banana trees, durian trees, patchoili, peanuts, sweet potatoes, taro, giant sago palms and so forth. Greg really wanted to see a 'canoe' tree, from which the dugout canoes are made, and I wanted to see plants and animals. We found out that our ferry would leave in two days time, so we scheduled a hike for the next day. We left in the morning, discovering that our 'guide' was actually our good friend and 'guide' that accompanied us throughout our whole trip.

We left in the morning and hiked through ladang and then through swampy ground where we had to balance on an infinite number of tiny bridges and fallen trees. We stopped to chew on sugar cane, then finally walked through an area where the forest was being cleared for planting and into our little corner of natural forest. We could hear a chainsaw the whole time, but our little bit of forest was beautiful. The canoe tree was as big as a redwood, and there were amazing plants and vines everywhere. We had a tarzan moment, then ate what I think was hearts of palm, which, contrary to common belief, only involves cutting a shoot off of a very prickly tree and carving into it with a machete. Eventually we headed back.

When we returned, later than we'd anticipated, we found that our boat had been canceled but that a cargo boat carrying a load of kopra, had room and was leaving in an hour. We made it on the boat and made our way back to 'civilization.' We immediately ended up on a car trip to Bukkit Tinggi for the day, then left the next day for Malaysia.

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Mentawai Round II (part 2: Children)

The next part of our trip was a little more business. Twelve elementary children had been told that they would not pass the school year in the village of Mongan Poula on the grounds that they had not attended their religion classes. The Baha'i children, we were told, usually joined the Catholic classes at the school, but this year had been told that they had to be the same religion as the teacher and therefore could not attend that class or the Muslim or Christian classes being offered (Catholicism and Christianity are separate religions in Indonesia). The village head saw this as being a village problem, since the village children were not passing and called a meeting. We attended to see if we could help out, and Soesi was able to convey that since the Baha'i Faith includes all religions, that it should not be a problem for Baha'i children to be a part of any other religious class. The school head, various teachers, parents, and representatives from all the religious communities came to the meeting, where it was eventually decided that the children could take a Baha'i test for a passing grade. What's really bizarre about the whole event is that it turns out that the school only has any of the religious classes on paper - none of the teachers ever shows up, and none of the students have every attended any of the classes. The whole event was pretty strange, but it seems like the real issue is the status of the Baha'i Faith. Many people in Mentawai were Baha'is and were forced to change their religion when the corrupt and uninformed police force learned that the Baha'i administration was banned up until 7 years ago. Thus, many people are waiting until they feel like it's safe to re-enter the Baha'i Faith (the school head included). Mentawai has the highest percentage of Baha'is of any island in Indonesia, and the Baha'i Faith is not one of the five options for classes taught at government schools. Several Mentawaiians that we talked to were of the opinion that if the Baha'i Faith could be taught in the public schools, they would know it was safe. The school head told us that what was needed in the village was a chance for people of different religious groups to get together and talk.

We also met with the Baha'i children and parents. Soesi gave each child a little prayer book on behalf of the National Spiritual Assembly, which they totally loved. The children immediately began reading and memorizing prayers without being told - I was surprised. Given the way the children generally acted, I figured the prayer books would be in the mud within minutes. Greg also did a unity activity with both the parents and children.

Later on, representatives from the three communities we visited came to one location to consult upon another educational issue - they bought land to build a home where Jr. High students could come to live, making it possible for them to attend school above the Elementary level. Currently students have to walk or take a boat for 2 or 3 hours to get from their villages to the Jr. High school.

It's amazing to me that the people are facing these issues head-on even though they were persecuted as a religious group in the past. It was nice to be able to visit and be encouraging of their activities, particularly since they've been left to feel so alone and devoid of communication with the rest of the Baha'i world. There are so many Baha'is there - we met them everywhere we went. This picture was taken when, as we were walking along a path, we heard someone call "Allah'u'abha!" which is the Baha'i greeting. It means "God is most Glorious." We couldn't figure out who was calling to us, until we looked up and found a man high above us in a coconut tree.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Mentawai Round II (part 1: North)

Our third wedding anniversary found us squished onto a ferry out of Padang. Greg had been really sick the day before, but promised his stomach would hold out. He spent the night on the bench at the back of the ship, alternately getting rained on and inhaling the engine fumes. I found a more protected spot sitting wedged between people sleeping in the indoor hallway between the bunks. There had been a problem obtaining tickets so we didn't get a bunk, but we were going to Mentawai anyways!

When we finally got to Pokai, a long conversation ensued about what our plans would be. We had planned to go to a very remote village on the West side of the island. We were told that it was too dangerous to go by sea, and that we needed to go up the river for two days, then hike through the jungle. However, it was raining hard and apparently the river was flooded. We would have to wait until it was less flooded, but still had enough water to go up; then we would have to wait for it to dry out so we could hike up the mountain. We only had two weeks, so it wasn't looking good. Then we found out that there had been a problem in the Elementary school in a village I'd been to before but we hadn't planned to revisit. So we decided to visit the same places I'd been and not try to get out to the West coast.

We started by going to the Northern village of Labuan Bajau, stopping on the way to visit some families in their ladang (farms). Previously, we had found many people away from home because they were at their ladang. What we didn't understand was that people's ladang are often really far away from their homes. Since they grow the food they eat near these alternate homes on their land, many people may spend only a few days in a month in their 'actual' village home. Obviously, this is not the way things have traditionally been done. The government relocation act some time ago forced family groups to move out of the mountainous interior to the coast to live in larger villages. This made it easier to introduce institutions like a police force and schools. But it meant that the people could no longer have enough land to grow food and changed their living situation, since they were now in single-family homes. It also meant that people had to learn to live near the shores and begin fishing. Because of this situation, many people are registered as living in a town and send their children to school in the town, but the parents may only spend one week in a month actually living in the town. Parents who can afford to send their children to school may leave them in the village alone the rest of the time, leaving neighbors or older children to take care of the younger ones. In any case, we thought we'd visit a few Baha'is that we'd missed on our previous visit by going out to their ladang. We got out of our out-rigger dugout canoe at a tiny inlet behind some mangroves. The family there was spending every moment making kopra by scraping out the inside of ripe coconuts, roasting them, then bagging them to be sent down the coast where it was made into either coconut oil or soap. It was a smell that Greg and I became very familiar with throughout our trip. After drinking delicious coconut water and eating smoked fish, we set out to invite the 'neighbors' to come down for the evening when we planned to share a letter from the Universal House of Justice. Several hours of hiking through the jungle found us lost. A man materialized who turned out to be a Baha'i and helped us find our way. We arrived exhausted at a little platform house where we were again served green coconut water and the best papaya I've ever had. The man residing in the house was thought to live in a village in an entirely different area, but only spent small amounts of time there. We could see right away that this was a problem for creating a sense of community, something very important in the Baha'i Faith, and also a problem for communication, since getting to his remote house was not an easy task. And of course, there are many others in the same situation.

The next day we boated further down the coast to Labuan Bajau where Greg and I swam in the incredibly clear water off the powdery white-sand beach. We saw dolphins doing flips when we arrived. We attended a school awards ceremony that lasted nearly a whole day, and we studied the letter from the Universal House of Justice. Even though the Local Spiritual Assembly of Baha'is in the area was registered with the National Spiritual Assembly of Indonesia, they had somehow failed to receive the very important letter and were very happy that we'd brought it to them. They clearly had great faith in this world institution, and it was wonderful to see how everyone took the message to heart.



Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Mentawai





Where do I begin? I have just returned to Surabaya after an 11 day absence. In that time, I drank rain water, drew water from a well to bathe, ate food cooked over a wood fire, said prayers by kerosene lamp, spent long hours in dug-out canoes, witnessed a traditional healing ceremony, and met lots of wonderful people. I suppose I should attempt a chronological account…

Tuesday night I scrambled to finish the SIS newsletter, which goes to print at 4pm every Wednesday. I also wrote my articles for the following week and set a template, and packed my backpack with lots of clothes, mosquito repellent, a collapsible mosquito net, instant oatmeal, granola bars, fried tempe, canned fish, dried fruit, and mosquito repelling incense coils. Wednesday morning I left for the airport, got my boarding pass, and got on the plane. I noticed that the dates on my ticket didn’t match the dates on the boarding pass, but decided it must be a computer error, since I certainly wouldn’t have been allowed to board the plane a day early. I had a layover in the Jakarta airport, during which time I smsed (text messaged) the woman I would be meeting in Padang, Soesi. It turned out she was in the same waiting room, and was confused because she thought I was arriving the next day. That meant that instead of following the plan that she would pick me up from the airport and we would go to the boat that night, I actually would have an entire day free in Padang. That was strange, since we’d worked the schedule out beforehand. I smsed Greg, asking what the date was and he confirmed that it was April 12th, which was the day my ticket was issued for. Finally, I asked Soesi. She said it was the 11th, which in fact, it was. How weird is that? That day and the next consisted of sitting around in Padang totally bored. Thankfully, I had books to read.

The night of the twelfth, we decided to take a speed boat to the ferry at about 7:30pm rather than board the boat at 4 and sit on it anchored while the tide went out. It was a good decision because when we did board the boat we still had half an hour before it left, during which time Soesi definitely started to look a little pale and I worried about getting seasick myself. Once the boat started moving I was fine, though. Our friend and guide, a Baha’I man from a village in Mentawai, Pak Salim, was able to secure a bunk for us even though they were all full (one of the two ferries was out of service so there were more passengers than usual). We slept the whole way, and woke up in Pokai, a village slightly north on the eastern side of the main Mentawai island, Siberut. Pak Salim immediately shuttled us one at a time on his motorbike (a rare commodity in Mentawai) to his house. I was first, and met his very cheerful children, elementary school-aged Sari, and one-year-old Anu, and his wife Zaynab. Despite being named after the historical Baha’I heroine, she was Muslim. Zaynab’s mother also lived in the house. All visible parts of her body except her face were tattooed with dark blue lines. Zaynab didn’t mind that I didn’t understand most of what she said, and served me tea and warm kolak, bananas and sweet potatoes stewed in sweetened coconut milk. I also drank my first glass of rainwater. Later in the afternoon I watched her collect rainwater dripping from the roof of the house. The rain prevented Soesi and I from visiting many people, but we did go to a nice blue-painted house of an older couple who harvest coklat, the seeds from the fruit of the cocoa tree which they sell to merchants who later sell to companies who turn the stuff into chocolate as we know it. Later, we were again shuttled by Pak Salim to the nearby town of Polopo where we sat in the local shop drinking more sweet tea. We needed to get to M----- but the boatmen insisted on charging us the tourist price to get up the river - $40 US instead of about $10, or 100,000 Rp. So we hired another ojek, a man with a motorcycle, and got him and Pak Salim to drive us half of the 8 Km. Then the road turned into a muddy trail so we walked the rest of the way. We reached our destination at sunset. Soesi was first to bathe, and when she was through, told me that she had kindly drawn water for my bath. I put on my sandals and walked out to the ‘bathroom’ which had a short ply-wood wall around it and a nice banana tree with over-hanging leaves as a ceiling. In the middle was a square well, swarming with mosquitos and next to that was the large rubber bucket with a scooper for bathing. The only difficult thing was finding a place to hang my dry clothes. We spent the evening walking through the village by flashlight and visiting houses lit by kerosene lantern. We returned to our house (the stars were amazing!) to find that it was one of the few houses with power. We watched awful soap operas in which people murdered and stole things, then lay awake listening to the generator under our mosquito net until we fell asleep. The nights were surprisingly cold!

The following day was incredibly hot, and we spent it sitting and talking. We sat on many wooden floors, on porches, on benches, always drinking hot sweet tea. We met several Baha’is, the village head, and many people curious about who we were and why we were there. There used to be many, many Baha’is in Mentawai (there still are a lot) but some time ago, when the government outlawed Baha’I administration along with the Rotary Club, Chinese language schools, and every other organized activity, the police in Mentawai decided to use the law to their advantage. They decided it was illegal for anyone to be a Baha’I (which was never true, but was a common misconception at the time), and did things like close the numerous Baha’I schools on the island, arrest Baha’is, interrogate them, forcing many to choose one of the five recognized religions (Islam, Christianity, Catholocism, Hinduism, or Buddhism), and causing many others to go into hiding. As a result of this, there are many people who used to be Baha’is, or who consider themselves to be two religions. For example, they say Baha’I prayers at home, but go to the mosque or church every week. Since Baha’is believe all religions come from the same God and are all equal and valid, it seems pretty ok, except that the Baha’I Faith is a separate religion requiring utmost truthfulness on the part of the believer, so it’s not quite in keeping with the teachings to pretend to be another religion.

In the afternoon Soesi called together as many Baha’is as could come to read and deepen on the most recent letter from the Universal House of Justice which makes special mention of strengthening the Local Spiritual Assemblies, the elected local branches of administration. The administration has been legal for seven years in Indonesia now, so it’s still a fairly new concept. The idea that no person is superior to any other person in the Baha’i Faith (which has no clergy) is very difficult in places ruled by village chiefs and family heads, but each of the nine elected members of an Assembly have no special station whatsoever – it is only when they are consulting together that they have any ability to plan for the future of the community or offer guidance. We discovered that the biggest problem facing the community was that of disunity. Some Baha’is don’t like other Baha’is, some Baha’is look down on people who were forced to change their religion, or look down on people of other religions – and the Baha’I Faith is a religion that says “It is incumbent upon all the peoples of the world to reconcile their differences, and, with perfect unity and peace, abide beneath the shadow of the Tree of His care and loving-kindness.” I was surprised to hear about disunity in the community, because the village is so small and it seems like everyone is friends and everyone was so happy and loving. Soesi and I formed an idea to help the community and were invited to an event at the school the following day. But before we could rest, we attended a healing ceremony done by five Secray, three men and two women. We stayed until midnight, but after we left apparently many people went into trances. The Secray wore mostly red and blue – red skirts or loin cloths, with headdresses made of leaves and feathers and beaded jewelry, and they pounded leaves, poured water, and chanted while ringing bells for an incredible amount of time. Later they danced with a plate of food while others played drums. It’s a good thing we didn’t stay up all night at it, because we would have been exhausted the next morning.

We had three different breakfasts that morning, at different houses, then went to the preschool (TK) which is run by a Baha’i foundation in Medan. Every child in the village is required to attend, and the parents love what their children are learning. The get a head start coming into Kindergarten, since they already can count and know the alphabet, and they are better behaved because they learn about sharing, helping, treating others nicely, and about accepting people from all backgrounds and beliefs. The teachers come from several different religious backgrounds, and are all well-trained and brought especially to teach in the school from other places. The parents were holding a meeting with the TK teachers and Elementary heads of schools to find out if they could improve the quality of education for the Elementary students. Now that the preschool is so good, they feel the Elementary school is lacking. The kids have to be sent away for Middle School. There was a very long discussion about whether paying 1,000Rp (10 cents) a month for each child was too high a fee. Then it was our turn. Several teachers had told us that they have trouble teaching the children to be respectful, have good manners, and be friendly, because the parents don’t support what they learn at home. The parents all say they like what the kids learn, but feel that it’s not their job to require anything of the children because they themselves are not educated at all. Our goal was to help the parents attending the meeting (over 45 mothers and fathers) understand their role in their childrens’ education even though they may be illiterate. We started by discussing a quote “Regard man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education can, alone, cause it to reveal its treasures, and enable mankind to benefit therefrom.” We talked about ‘gems’ and passed out a virtue written on a slip of paper to every person (love, generosity, creativity, etc.) Then they formed groups of 5 according to their paper to make a ‘visual representation’ of a quote that talks about how a child without knowledge (intellectual, moral, and spiritual) is like a tree without fruits. Within 2 minutes, every group was ready and eager to perform, and the various plays, pantomimes and so forth were hilarious. I was amazed! The first time we asked adults in Java to create a drama, they were incredulous and were able to come up with presentations only a full 15 minutes of hesitation and questions. The people in Mentawai lack all of the ‘saving face’ culture present in Java, and don’t hesitate to disagree or tell you ‘no’ when the answer is no. The woman spoke as much as the men, and were listened to. All over the island I saw men taking care of toddlers and women working in fields. In any case, the parents loved the little ‘class’ on parenting and wanted more! The few Baha’is in the group were thrilled that people outside their religion liked the Baha’I concepts presented so much, and they actually met new people (how is that possible in such a small village?) because of the random assignment of groups. It turns out that the village chief (a self-proclaimed former Baha’i) had asked that all the mosques and churches in the village urge their followers to attend this very important meeting on education because the children are the future of the village.

We left from the school, picked up our bags, walked to the river, and climbed into a very unsteady dug-out canoe with a motor on the back called a pompom. We sped down the wide, curvy river as the sun turned the clouds gold, reflecting off the smooth water surface. Our navigator was a teenage guy who took the curves like an American High Schooler would cruise the curves in his new car. We passed a few dug-out canoes without motors, the people paddling along.

We stayed in a house/shop at the transfer place for small boats, and the next day took an only slightly larger pompom out the mouth of the river into the ocean. We were drenched within minutes, and glad we’d wrapped our gear in plastic garbage bags. I talked to a young man sitting behind me the whole way. It turned out he was going to become the new Arabic teacher (and acting Imam) in the one tiny mosque in the town we were visiting. He was from an Islamic school in Jakarta and was volunteering for one year, starting the day of our arrival. That night we heard his first call to prayer over the town. There were only two Baha’I women in that town. We stayed with one of them, a teacher at a TK the same as at the last place. Unfortunately, the room in her boarding house reeked of the drying green cloves that filled the house. Cloves (cengkeh) are the main source of income for most of the people there. When it was sunny, every path in town was covered with cloves and clove stems in various stages of dryness. It was cool, but that smell made me totally nauseas. We hiked to the top of the mountain and could see the sea and the bay where we’d come in. The path we walked on continued up the hill to the next village, a two day walk away, and down the hill to a patch of forest overlooking the bay. Our guide told us that was the only place near the village you could get cell phone service. We didn’t go there. Instead we sat on the porch of a house for several hours, watching groups of teenagers or older women going to pick rambutan in the forest, and men trekking into the village from the next town barefoot and smiling. After some time, a young couple with a toddler and a baby came to the porch – the house was evidently theirs but they didn’t mind us. We left anyways, but I took special notice of the man cuddling the sleeping toddler while the mother put down her work basket – a type of long basket worn like a backpack. We left the next morning the same way we came. This time the tide was high so we didn’t have to wade through the sticky mud (Soesi’s flipflop broke on the way in). It was very sunny and the sea was calm. A nice old lady held her umbrella up as a sunshade over both of us, and we saw so many dolphins that I thought they’d never end – they were going the opposite direction as us farther out to sea and they kept surfacing in a line for about 5 whole minutes.

Back at the shop, we picked up the extra clothes and food we’d left and went on to Labuanbajao, the northernmost fishing village, by private pompom in the ocean. We stayed with a wonderful young couple with a toddler and a one-month-old baby. It turns out that over 30% of the people in the village are Baha’is. I walked out to the beautiful beach the afternoon of our first and only full day in Labuanbajao. It’s a long crescent of powdery sand reaching into the turquoise ocean, free of rocks or coral, with palm trees and jambu air trees next to the beach. Definitely at least one of the most beautiful beaches I’ve seen in Indonesia. So I walked along the beach, and saw a group of about 8 fishermen untangling net in a painted boat. One turned out to be my host who called me over and introduced me to his extended family – all of whom replied with “Allah’u’abha,” the Baha’I greating that means “God is most glorious.” The father of the man we stayed with is a Baha’I secray. The Muslims and Christians in the area forbid their members from practicing the old traditions and he was afraid the same was true for Baha’is. Fortunately, the Baha’I Faith encourages people to keep their own cultures alive as a necessary component of the diversity of the human race. His wife invited us to a huge breakfast before we left, including chicken, vegetables in coconut milk and spices, rice, and sago steamed into a chewy, purple bread. The sago was not passed to me, on the assumption (rather, well-known fact) that sago shows primitiveness and anyone modern prefers rice. The people in Mentawai pay more for rice than we do in America even though they have very little money in an effort to be modern. Throughout Indonesia, and particularly in the nearby city of Padang, the Mentawaians are looked down on and viewed as primitive, so they respond by buying generators if they can afford them and eating rice. After finally getting hold of the sago, I said it was delicious, but they just laughed, thinking I was being polite but not honest. Really, though, I’d take sago over flavorless white rice any day. The sago tastes like eating a good whole-grain bread, something that doesn’t exist in Indonesia, and I’m sure it’s much healthier than rice. Besides which, sago grows in Mentawai and rice doesn’t! We returned to Pokai and decided to go back to Malampolo. We planned to stay a whole day, but it turned out that the ferry back to Padang had changed schedules so we only went for one night and had to return the next morning. That night we met many Baha’is that we hadn’t met on the first visit. There must be many more that we never met.

On the way back we stopped at the shop and Soesi chaired a consultation on the much-needed boarding house – many of the Baha’I children have to move to another town just to go to jr. high school, and because of lack of accommodation, the best option is to send them to the Muslim or Catholic schools which provide housing but make it known that it’s expected that all the Muslims at a Muslim school are in fact Muslim. Providing a Baha’I dorm in the village that has a middle school would allow Baha’I children to attend without pressure of conversion. The ferry was supposed to leave very soon and we were 30 minutes from the port. I left first and waited with Zaynab, worrying about missing the ferry and eating kolak with pumpkin. But Soesi arrived and we boarded the boat without a problem. We saw dolphins again on our way to Maurasiberut, the biggest ‘town’ on the Island. The presence of occasional glass windows, satelite dishes, and electricity in most houses clued us in to just how much more modern this ‘capital’ town was compared wo where we’d come from. We spent a few hours docked there, so Soesi borrowed a motorbike and navigated the holey roads and bridges to meet with a few Baha’is including a couple that knew Dr. Mohajir. Then it was back to Padang where we were immediately shuttled into an air conditioned car with leather seats and we were back in ‘civilization.’

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Leaving Surabaya







There was such a flurry of activity when we left Surabaya and I'm just now getting it into my blog - but I'm dating it back so that it will be in chronological order, before the Mentawai blogs.

First, we arranged for the movers to come and pack everything in our house. This is a service that the school paid for, and boy was it nice. All we did was sit and watch, and they wrapped and boxed everything. In fact, they did such a thorough job that they packed a few things that weren't ours!

After that, we took a trip that we'd been meaning to take for a very long time - to Mt. Bromo, the famous volcanic crater just outside of Surabaya. We got a group together and drove up in the middle of the night to catch sunrise at the crater. It was lots of fun, though exhausting after being up all night and then hiking up the stairs to the crater (and then riding horses around).

Then my classes finished up. My Korean Moms English class finished the book they were reading about an adopted Korean girl in America and we had some delicious food to celebrate. Then my flute students had a little concert in my then-empty living room. Our batik class met a final time in the garage to finish our T-shirts and decide on background colors. Then we said our goodbyes. To do this, we decided we had better visit all the people that we'd become friends with. We had to visit everyone so that nobody would feel left out. For days we drove around the city making sure to visit every family. We had to stay long enough to say goodbye, and often we had to say goodbye to all the neighbors, too! Several of our friends were nice enough to drive around with us to help with directions and translating. It was so sad to say goodbye, and everyone asked when we would come back... It's hard to explain that there's a chance we might never be back, though I certainly hope that some day we can.

We attended our last Nineteen-Day Feast (the Baha'i community gets together on the first of every Baha'i month) and we had to say our final goodbyes to our wonderful community. We took tons of pictures, and everyone said they would miss us. It was a good opportunity to reflect on our first Feast with the community, in which we were regarded kindly, but as strangers, and where the Feast was just plain boring - this final Feast was a loving atmosphere and a friend of ours led singing at the end.

As we finished packing we distributed our remaining household items among friends, and learned about a very interesting Indonesian tradition: when someone moves away, everyone gives them gifts - kenang-kenangan, gifts of remembrance. So we had to re-pack all over again to make sure we could bring all our gifts home! Several of our American friends had going-away dinners and parties, and we had our own little get-together as we zipped our bags a final time and made sure everything was out of our enormous house.

We first left for Malaysia to drop our things at a friend's house, then took a real vacation in Lombok before heading to Mentawai. Lombok was an excellent transition - we did nothing but lay, walk, ride, and swim at the beach for 4 days, processing our time in Surabaya and mentally preparing for our month of travels that would take us all the way to Haifa.